One of the beautiful-and sometimes challenging-things about a long-term relationship is that the person you fell in love with is still changing. And so are you. We often assume that after being together for years, we should already know our partner. We know their favorite foods, how they take their coffee, what makes them irritated, and probably what they are...[ read more ]

There is a moment in many relationships when a couple realizes, We don’t want to keep doing things the way we’ve been doing them. Sometimes there has been too much conflict. Sometimes the relationship has simply become buried under work, children, responsibilities, routines, and the busyness of everyday life. And sometimes nothing is particularly “wrong”—the couple just misses feeling close, playful,...[ read more ]