The Society Hotel retreat

The Society Hotel retreat

 

 

 

 

 

Love That Lasts: A Gottman Couples Retreat

Reignite Your Relationship with The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work

Friday, December 11 – Sunday, December 13, 2026
The Society Hotel
https://bingen.thesocietyhotel.com

 


A Luxurious Weekend to Strengthen Your Relationship

Are you tired of having the same arguments? Do you miss the closeness, fun, and connection you once shared?

Join us for a transformative weekend designed to help couples deepen their bond, strengthen intimacy, and build a lasting foundation of love. Based on Dr. John Gottman’s groundbreaking research, this retreat brings The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work to life in a peaceful, restorative setting.


Why Attend?

✔ Reconnect & Reignite – Rediscover what brought you together and learn how to keep your love strong.
✔ Improve Communication & Manage Conflict – Gain practical tools to navigate challenges with clarity, compassion, and understanding.
✔ Deepen Intimacy & Romance – Strengthen emotional and physical connection in meaningful ways.
✔ Create a Lasting Partnership – Build shared meaning and a grounded vision for your future together.

Whether you’re engaged, newly married, or decades into your relationship, this retreat is for any couple ready to invest in their love. If your relationship is thriving, you’ll strengthen what’s already working. If you’re facing challenges, you’ll leave with a clear and supportive roadmap forward.


A Luxury Experience in a Breathtaking Setting

Nestled in the Columbia River Gorge, The Society Hotel offers cozy accommodations, a tranquil spa, and nourishing meals—the perfect environment for rest, reflection, and reconnection.

This exclusive retreat is intentionally limited to 10 couples, ensuring an intimate and high-quality experience.

Location: Bingen, Washington (just a short drive from Portland, OR)
Dates: Friday, December 11 – Sunday, December 13, 2026


Weekend Schedule

Friday Evening | 7:30–9:00 PM

Opening Circle & Intention Setting
Ease into the weekend with introductions, connection, and shared intentions. This gentle opening creates a foundation of safety, presence, and connection for the days ahead.

 

Saturday Morning | 10:00 AM–1:00 PM

What Makes Marriage Work
Explore the research behind lasting relationships, including insights from the Gottman “Love Lab” and the core principles of strong, resilient partnerships.

Deepening Friendship & Love Maps
Strengthen your relationship foundation by learning how to truly know and understand your partner’s inner world.

Fondness & Admiration
Reconnect with what you appreciate and cherish about one another, and learn simple practices to keep appreciation alive.

 

Saturday Afternoon | 3:00–6:00 PM

Bids for Connection
Discover the small, everyday moments that build emotional closeness and strengthen intimacy.

Managing Conflict in a Healthy Way
Learn how to approach disagreements with curiosity, respect, and compassion—turning conflict into opportunities for deeper connection rather than disconnection.

 

Sunday Morning | 10:00 AM–1:00 PM

Shared Meaning & Lasting Rituals
Create a shared vision for your relationship and design meaningful rituals that support lasting connection. You’ll also reflect on your experience and make intentional commitments moving forward.

 

What’s Included?

✔ 11.5 hours of expert-led workshop sessions (lecture + private couple exercises)
✔ The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work workbook + additional couple materials
✔ Two nights of luxury lodging at The Society Hotel
✔ Exclusive spa access for relaxation and rejuvenation
✔ Gourmet Saturday dinner catered by Boda’s Kitchen https://www.bodaskitchen.com

Breakfast and lunch are available at the hotel café and are arranged independently.

You will also have full access to the hotel spa throughout the weekend for rest, grounding, and renewal.

 

Reserve Your Spot – Limited Availability

Space is limited to 10 couples to maintain an intimate, high-quality experience.

You can register directly on the website under the “Register for the Workshop” section.

 

Investment (Based on Lodging Choice)

🏡 Standard Queen Room (Schoolhouse, shared bathroom) – $1,950
🏡 Standard King Room (Schoolhouse, shared bathroom) – $1,995
🏡 Double Queen Cabin with Private Patio – $2,350

To register, select your preferred lodging option and contact me directly. We will guide you through the next steps and answer any questions.

 

Cancellation & Refund Policy

We understand that life circumstances can change, and we aim to be fair and transparent while honoring the planning, preparation, and limited availability of this retreat.

Because this retreat is limited to only 10 couples and includes reserved lodging, meals, and materials, the following policy applies:

Before August 1, 2026
Full refund minus a $150 administrative processing fee per couple.

August 1 – October 1, 2026
50% refund of total retreat payment.

After October 1, 2026
No refunds are available.

Transfers

If you are unable to attend after October 1, 2026, you may transfer your reservation to another couple (subject to facilitator approval) or apply your registration toward a future workshop, if available.

Special Circumstances

In cases of serious illness, family emergencies, or other significant unforeseen events, partial credit toward a future retreat may be considered at the facilitator’s discretion.

All cancellation requests must be submitted in writing via email. Refunds are based on the original payment amount, excluding non-refundable fees.



4531 SE Belmont St, Suite 319
Portland, OR 97215

ivanamaclay@gmail.com
(503) 688-0935

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